The way Lily and Toby told everyone that they were getting married that day was amazing.
Kathryn's face ❤ And John's face actually...
But then things took a turn for the worse...
Lily had caught Toby watching soccer while she was desperately trying to get everything sorted for the wedding! She was understandably a little bit angry...
It then became clear that Lily's anger was not only about that night.
She HATED how much Toby had to work.
But Toby said he HAD to work so much to keep a roof over their heads!
We were really struggling to pick a side here...
The topic then moved from work to their son.
Toby hated how controlling Lily was when it came to Carlton.
In fact, Toby hated it so much that he actually said the words...
Did he WANT to be jilted?
Since they were fighting, Toby thought it might be a good idea for them not to get married that day.
And we sort of agreed, but Lily said that that was out of the question.
Daphne was the perfect officiant.
That dress, that smile, that politeness.
And Toby gently placing the ring on Lily's finger was so sweet!
Was Lily softening?
Yeeeeeeah, that would be a no.
Still, Toby took it in his stride and went on to give such a romantic speech.
We really thought she HAD to be softening at this point...
But again, it was a no.
Oh god, oh god, oh god, oh god...
Lily just really wanted to get the wedding over and done with.
And she found speaking for Toby to be the best way to do that.
Side note: look at Daphne!
She is so awkward and adorable.
Was there going to be a kiss?
But after Lily had a chance to calm down, they began to talk things through.
Lily admitted that she was controlling.
And that she loves Carlton with all her heart, but that she missed working.
Our hearts went out to her!
Toby then came clean to Lily about his gambling problem.
That's why he had been working so much -- to pay back the money he owed! Lily said they would get him some help and that they would work through it together.
THEN FINALLY THERE WERE SMILES! SMILES ON THEIR WEDDING DAY!
Cutest moment alert:
And yes, Toby finally got to kiss his bride.
And what a great kiss it was.
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